Social attitudes towards monogamy and fidelity have changed over time, which can lead to an increase in relationship problems. Dating portals enable people to enter into new relationships relatively quickly. This can have both positive and negative effects. While it becomes easier to get in touch with others, this logically also results in numerous cases of fraud.
The supposed anonymity offered by relevant platforms such as Tinder, Bumble, OkCupid, eHarmony, Hinge or ElitePartner has a lasting influence on the behavior of men and women. Whether there is actually more cheating than before remains difficult to answer and depends on a number of variables. Even if the detection rate may have increased thanks to currently very popular online tools, the exact number of truly unfaithful partners is difficult to determine.
Detect suspicious behavior
Cheaterbuster and similar software solutions usually use algorithms to recognize patterns and anomalies in profiles on dating portals. They analyze the data entered (e.g. first name, age, hometown and picture) and can identify potentially fake or fraudulent profiles. Social media posts have given an additional boost to interest in broken hearts. Trending videos that present an emotional exposure of cheating in long-term relationships are often shared and receive a lot of attention.
The accuracy of such online tools can vary, and they are sometimes unable to identify clear differences between honest and dishonest users. Therefore, it is always advisable to do your own research and look out for other signs of fraud. The likelihood that profile pictures on various platforms have simply been misused or blatantly stolen by third parties is now relatively high.
Unfortunately, data theft is widespread
Many cheaters use photos they find on the Internet, usually from social networks or professional photo sites, to create an attractive and trustworthy impression. Many people are unaware of the risks associated with using their images on the Internet. Often these photos are used without the consent of the person depicted to create false identities. These aim to gain financial or emotional benefits.
In addition, there are various online tools and software that make it easier for fraudsters to steal and reuse images. This means that it is almost impossible for the average user to find out whether the profile picture actually belongs to the person behind the profile. This uncertainty makes it particularly important to be cautious and to ask questions if something seems suspicious.
The dilemma of immediately judging guilt
If you are in a relationship and find out that your partner may be active on a dating profile, there are some residual risks that you should consider.
1. Misunderstandings: The person you found might not be your partner or there might be a harmless explanation for their profile. A false accusation could lead to conflict.
2. Breach of trust: The confrontation could shake the foundation of your relationship, especially if it is not done in a direct or honest way. Even if there is evidence, addressing the situation can lead to a breach of trust.
3. Emotional reactions: People react differently to such conversations. Your partner might become defensive, deny, or even react angrily. This could lead to intense emotional arguments.
4. Ethical considerations: It is important to respect your partner’s privacy. There may be reasons for their behavior that you do not understand. An open conversation can often be more productive than simply confronting them with evidence.
5. Long-term effects: Regardless of the outcome, the confrontation can have long-term effects on your relationship. It’s important to think about the way you want to address the issue.
In conclusion, active listening is an important part of healthy communication and plays a crucial role in resolving conflict and strengthening the relationship.
